The Post – 40 Years Later: RFK Remembered

June 5, 2008

“But suppose God is black? What if we go to Heaven and we, all our lives, have treated the Negro as an inferior, and God is there, and we look up and He is not white? What then is our response?”

Robert Francis Kennedy

Today is the 40th anniversary of Robert Kennedy’s assassination. I still feel his loss. In searching for something to honor this day, I came across a You Tube site with roughly 30 videos of various things about Robert Kennedy and his life. Three which I really liked are:

Robert F. Kennedy Speech: Mindless Menace of Violence in America

Bobby Kennedy: Fearless

Robert Kennedy Tribute: Making a Difference

I was particularly drawn to his speech in the video, Robert Kennedy announces the death of Martin Luther King, Jr. :

The video’s pictures of the people, and the times, as well as his delivery, capture the real emotion and essence of that night. I’ve included part of his speech here:

“Martin Luther King dedicated his life to love and to justice between fellow human beings. He died in the cause of that effort. In this difficult day, in this difficult time in the United States, it is perhaps well to ask what kind of a nation we are and in what direction we want to move in.

For those of you who are Black, considering the evidence evidently is that there were White people who were responsible, you can be filled with bitterness and with hatred and a desire for revenge. We can move in that direction as a country and greater polarization, Black people amongst Blacks and White amongst Whites, filled with hatred toward one another. Or we can make an effort, as Martin Luther King did, to understand and to comprehend and replace that violence, that stain of bloodshed that has spread across our land, with an effort to understand, compassion, and love.

For those of you who are Black and are tempted to be filled with hatred and mistrust of the injustice of such an act, against all White people, I would only say that I can also feel within my own heart the same kind of feeling. I had a member of my family killed. And he was killed by a White man. But we have to make an effort in the United States. We have to make an effort to understand, to get beyond or go beyond these rather difficult times. My favorite poem, my favorite poet was Aeschylus:

‘Even in our sleep, pain which cannot forget, falls drop by drop upon the heart, until in our own despair, against our will, comes wisdom through the awful grace of God.’

What we need in the United States is not division. What we need in the United States is not hatred. What we need in the United States is not violence and lawlessness, but is love and wisdom and compassion toward one another, and a feeling of justice toward those who still suffer within our country, whether they be White or they be Black.

So I’d like to ask you tonight, to return home, to say a prayer for the family of Martin Luther King, yeah it’s true, but more importantly, to say a prayer for our own country, which all of us love, a prayer for understanding and that compassion of which I spoke.

We can do well in this country. We will have difficult times. We’ve had difficult times in the past. And we will have difficult times in the future. It is not the end of violence. It is not the end of lawlessness and it’s not the end of disorder. But the vast majority of White people and the vast majority of Black people in this country, want to live together, want to improve the quality of our life, and want justice for all human beings that abide in our land. And dedicate ourselves to what the Greeks wrote so many years ago, ‘To tame the savageness of man and make gentle the life of this world,’ let us dedicate ourselves to that and say a prayer for our country and our people.”

In listening to him speak, and reading his words, I often wonder what might have happened, had both he and Martin Luther King, Jr. lived. Can you imagine politicians today speaking of “understanding….compassion….love?”

The You Tube site also has a number of video tributes, and that classic last speech of his in Los Angeles, at the Ambassador Hotel, that ended with those words I can still hear on that 1968 TV set: “Now it’s on to Chicago, and let’s win there, too.”

Of course he never made it. A reporter that night, who was right behind Kennedy as they made their way through the Ambassador Hotel pantry shows why. That video is on the You Tube site as well, and it captures in real time, the chaos and panic as Kennedy was shot and the reporter stood in front of Sirhan Sirhan, the gun pointed right at him.

Finally, there are videos showing the funeral, the eulogy by his brother Sen. Ted Kennedy in St. Patrick’s Cathedral in New York City, and most intense for me – a video of the journey of his funeral train, from New York City to Washington – RFK – Final Journey.

I was only 13, and you’d expect I’d be out with friends. Instead, I spent the entire day watching his train crawl down the eastern seaboard. THAT video haunts me most and I remember to this day, watching all those people choking the tracks, waiting for hours in the June heat, just to see his casket go by. SUCH a sense of loss by millions. That journey normally took 4 hours by train. Instead, it took 8 hours, resulted in the deaths of two people in New Jersey, and disrupted train service throughout the east, as noted in an entry from steamlocomotive.com :

“On June 8, 1968, the 21 car funeral train of Robert F. Kennedy left New York City for Washington, DC. The train was led by GG1 number 4901 with number 4903 trailing, and ended with Penn Central open-platform business car number 120 carrying the body of the late Senator.

A three car pilot train pulled by GG1 number 4932 ran ahead of the funeral train and GG1s numbers 4900 and 4910 followed light as back-up motive power.

At Elizabeth, NJ, the crowd moved onto the tracks to get a view of the special train, just as “The Admiral”, heading to New York City from Chicago, was rounding a curve. “The Admiral’s” GG1 sounded its horn, but some of the people in the crowd did not clear the track in time and sadly two were killed and four seriously injured.

After the tragic accident the Penn Central ordered all train movement stopped until the special train passed. The funeral train arrived in Washington’s Union Station four hours behind schedule and had caused disruption to the entire railroad.”

The remainder of the journey was described in an excerpt from Robert Kennedy: His Life, by Evan Thomas, on the Washington Post website:

The thousand or so passengers stumbled off the train at Washington’s Union Station shortly after 9 p.m., to the booming drums of the Navy Band. Down Constitution Avenue, past the Justice Department … to the Lincoln Memorial where everyone sang “The Battle Hymn of the Republic” one last time … across the bridge to Arlington National Cemetery. A light rain had stopped. The moon hung heavy and full over the Potomac. By candlelight and TV light, the weary pallbearers – old friends like David Hackett, trusted aides like John Seigenthaler, family champions like Steve Smith – hoisted the casket and stumbled up the hill to the knoll where John F. Kennedy lay buried. A gravesite had been chosen for Robert about thirty yards away.

When Robert had helped design JFK’s grave, he had disagreed with his brother’s widow. RFK wanted a plain white cross. Jackie desired a grander and more elegant memorial. Today, President Kennedy’s grave spouts an eternal flame, and a massive black slab bears his name. On a sweeping curve of marble are carved the heroic words of John F. Kennedy’s inaugural address, “Let the word go forth from this time and place … that the torch has been passed …..” Beyond lies the federal city and the great, glistening monuments to Lincoln and Washington.

Robert Kennedy’s resting place is to the side, down a narrow alley shielded by some small trees. On a block of marble facing his grave are carved fragments of his two best speeches, his peroration from the Day of Affirmation speech to the South Africans (“Each time a man stands up for an ideal … he sends a tiny ripple of hope ….”) and the lesson from Aeschylus he delivered in a slum in Indianapolis on the day Martin Luther King was shot (“In our sleep, pain which cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart until, in our own despair …. comes wisdom ….”). A small, plain white cross stands by a stone slab inscribed with his name and the years of his birth and death. In contrast to the grandeur of JFK’s grave, the effect is unadorned and a little lonely. One thinks of his struggle to overcome fear and wonders what, if he had lived, he might have done.

I watched it all, the whole morning, afternoon, evening, and night. I watched, just blown away by the faces along those tracks…and by the impact of the realization that one man’s life could make such a difference to so many. And for 40 years, I have felt that man’s loss.

There is a book, RFK Funeral Train by Paul Fusco, that contains photos along that train’s journey. Even now, looking at all those people, I choke up. The description from this UK website, Foto 8, shows the worldwide appeal of those photos…and the man:

“RFK Funeral Train
by Paul Fusco
Softcover -Signed Copy

A uniquely profound record of one of the defining moments of the twentieth century. These emotional photographs depict the track-side scenes as hundred of thousands of people stood patiently in the searing heat of June 8th 1968 to watch the funeral train carrying RFK’s body passed by.

This set of photographs by Fusco lay undiscovered for 30 years, never published until first appearing as an exhibition in the late 1990s.

Now out of print the original Softcover book is a collector’s item, sold here as a rare signed copy.”

Wanting that book, I checked around and it’s only available as “collector’s copies” that run anywhere from $75-250 or 100 pounds on the UK site. So, not in my budget. But if you click here, that will take you to the Digital Journalist’s website entry for the RFK Funeral train. There you’ll see 15 thumbnail pictures from the book that you can click on and enlarge. At least to me, those pictures say it all, and keep the memory alive in my heart.

I leave you with a last quote, another one I try to remember as I live my life, and the answer when anyone thinks they alone cannot make a difference to another… or to this world:

“Each time a man stands for an ideal, or acts to improve the lot of others, or strikes out against injustice, he sends a tiny ripple of hope, and crossing each other from a million different centers of energy and daring, those ripples build a current which can sweep down the mightiest walls of oppression and resistance.”

The Gift

June 4, 2008

As today’s gift, a comment received on yesterday’s gift post – my Winnie the Pooh quote on friendship. I loved what he shared, and wanted to send it out to all. Enjoy!

Tom Says:
June 4, 2008 at 12:58 pm edit

Although this quote does not quite pertain to friendship, whenever I read it I think of my close friends and how they have touched my life.

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
– Marianne Williamson

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So, my thanks to Tom for sending this to me. May we give everyone around us the permission to show their own glory, and liberate them, and ourselves, from fear……

The Gift

June 3, 2008

I was searching under “Friendship Quotations” and came across this one, which I liked. It is a worthy, honorable, and true thing to say, something a real friend would say to you. After all, a real friend is the someone who can look you in the eye and see straight past the flaws and the struggles, straight into your heart…the true heart…the one that came to this earth unblemished, the one that carries God and your true essence. That friend can see all you truly are, and all you are truly capable of. So of course it makes sense that that same friend will encourage you to be your best with words like those of Christopher Robin to Winnie the Pooh:

“Promise me you’ll always remember: You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.” (A. A. Milne)

I would simply add: and more full of goodness than you realize.

The Gift

June 2, 2008

“We train in not being afraid to be a fool.”

An instruction from Pema Chodron’s teacher. From her book: Comfortable With Uncertainty: 108 Teachings on Cultivating Fearlessness and Compassion

The Post – Final Photos: New England Seascape Oil Painting

June 2, 2008

My earlier posts had photos of the New England seascape I’ve been painting for my sister. And for whatever reason, the Photoshop demon that plagued some of the intermediate photos of this painting, did not raise its ugly head for these. So, my final photos of this painting. If you want to compare these to earlier photos, just click here for the page that has all the previous links for the New England seascape photos.

And now, the first is a shot of the whole:

Then some closer shots of the left, middle, and right sides of the painting:

Some shots of the tide pool, rock and seaweed details, and foamy surf:

A couple shots of the pier and town (note my attempt at a Corvette for my brother-in-law in the town picture):

And last but not least, a hermit crab on the rocks, a nod to my Under the Pier main animal character!

So, now it will be on to other seascapes, paintings of my story’s diner (inside and out), and some pen and ink drawings with color washes of the various animal characters under the pier! Stay tuned.

The Post – Birds of the Air

June 1, 2008

I have always loved the passage from Matthew 6:26 about the birds of the air:

“Look at the birds in the sky. They don’t plant or harvest or gather food into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. You are more valuable than they are, aren’t you?”

In lieu of my talking today, I am going to share a blog entry link I came across today. The blog is called “Travelin’ with Charlie” and the description is as follows: “An occasional travelogue, philosophical and spiritual journal of a middle-aged widow, recently retired, who is trying out life as a fulltime RVer with her Golden Retriever, Charlie.”

Spiritual journeys of any kind intrigue me, and as I noted in my Bette Davis blog post the other day, the stories of people and their heroic attempts to make their way through life, along with their flaws as well as the poignant, always, always interest and inspire me. Her January 8, 2008 blog entry happened to pop up when I did a Google search for the Bible passage on birds of the air. She did one that day entitled:

“The Birds of the Air, The Lilies of the Field

What struck me was her discussion, which mirrored some of my thoughts, about how in the end, all our worries about food, bills, things etc. are really meaningless and not important, yet ….they ARE important because we need food, a place to live, some preparations for our future and the care of our children….we can’t just abdicate our responsibility to look after ourselves and live life blindly. There has to be some middle path, some kind of balance in the tension of these two extremes. Anyway, she talks about those passages and includes in her discussions, thoughts about the mystics, St. John of the Cross, Teresa of Avila, and Thomas Merton, all personal favorites of mine. She explores what it is for each of us to travel through our own “dark night of the soul.” In any event, I thought I would share her blog entry.

Her brief bit about herself on the blog page states that she is a 57-year-old Leo, lives in Portland Oregon, and adds: “Widowed suddenly in October, 2003. Decided being single shouldn’t keep me from the dreams my late husband and I shared of traveling our beautiful country. Check out my other posts on The Oregonian’s web page, http://www.oregonlive.com/travel/ and watch for my articles in the travel section of the Sunday Oregonian every few weeks.”

In any event, I’m going to add her to my Blogroll, and if any out there are interested in following her travels and thoughts, just visit Travelin’ With Charlie.

Enjoy her, and below, I’ve added some of my own “birds of the air” moments from a beach trip a couple years ago. Happy Sunday…and Happy June.

The Gift

June 1, 2008

With summer’s heat creeping up on us, something to cool you off:

The Gift

May 31, 2008

“As we train in …patience, we are first of all patient with ourselves. We learn to relax with the restlessness of our energy…Patience takes courage. It is not an ideal state of calm. In fact, when we practice patience we will see our agitation far more clearly.”

Pema Chodron in her book, Comfortable With Uncertainty: 108 Teachings on Cultivating Fearlessness and Compassion

The Post – Bette Davis Inspiration

May 28, 2008

As someone who generally works alone, I often look for inspiration in others’ lives. I think that the truly heroic can be found in anyone’s life and I never tire of hearing another’s story. This even extends to the world of movies and the people who bring them to life.

I’ve mentioned before that one of the things I love are old movies. The “real” old ones. From the thirties and forties. The era of black and white film, the era that generated some real “legends.” Two I rank at the top are Katherine Hepburn and Bette Davis. For today, I’ll write only about Bette, but I will note that both shared an independence and forthrightness that often got them in trouble, isolated, reviled or ridiculed. Yet, both were often on untrodden paths, trying things women didn’t do at that time, including standing up for what they wanted in their careers. They stuck it out and came back to create legendary careers and blaze a trail for those who came after them.

When you think of “leading lady” you think of “glamorous beauties” and Bette Davis, “Bette Davis eyes” aside, certainly wasn’t viewed that way. Even she noted that unlike her contemporaries, “she forged a career without the benefit of beauty.” She said she “became tough by necessity,” and even chose her own tombstone epitaph: “She did it the hard way.” And in reading over her Wikipedia entry, she sure did. Battles over movies, marriages, scripts, and co-stars, she was anything but “demure.” Yet, gifted or flawed, you can’t read her biography and not respect her.

She believed in her work, wouldn’t compromise on how she thought something should be done, and stood up for herself in an age where women were not only not taken seriously, but usually victimized. She fought for her rights, as in her lawsuit against Jack Warner to gain more control over her life and work choices, and even though she lost she set an example that others would later follow…and win.

She took on roles and challenges others wouldn’t touch. Her Wikipedia entry states:

“Her film choices were often unconventional; she sought roles as manipulators and killers in an era when actresses usually preferred to play sympathetic characters, and she excelled in them. She favored authenticity over glamour and was willing to change her own appearance if it suited the character. Claudette Colbert commented that Davis was the first actress to play roles older than herself, and therefore did not have to make the difficult transition to character parts as she aged.”

She wasn’t a saint. Outspoken, she had a caustic wit often at the expense of others. A particularly favorite target of hers was one of her co-stars, Joan Crawford:

‘The best time I ever had with Joan Crawford was when I pushed her down the stairs in “Whatever Happened to Baby Jane?” ”

“Why am I so good at playing bitches? I think it’s because I’m not a bitch. Maybe that’s why Miss Crawford always plays ladies.”

“You should never say bad things about the dead, you should only say good…Joan Crawford is dead, good!”

But personal flaws aside, when it came to her art, her soul was true. Acting was her life-long passion. Her observations about the meaning of her work can be an inspiration to anyone, no matter their path in life:

“It has been my experience that one cannot, in any shape or form, depend on human relations for lasting reward. It is only work that truly satisfies.”

“My passions were all gathered together like fingers that made a fist. Drive is considered aggression today; I knew it then as purpose.”

“To fulfill a dream, to be allowed to sweat over lonely labor, to be given the chance to create, is the meat and potatoes of life. The money is the gravy. As everyone else, I love to dunk my crust in it. But alone, it is not a diet designed to keep body and soul together.”

One of her co-stars, Charles Laughton, gave her the impetus to always push herself to reach for things way beyond what she thought she could do. He told her:

“Never not dare to hang yourself. That’s the only way you grow in your profession. You must continually attempt things that you think are beyond you, or you get into a complete rut.”

That became her philosophy in life and it seems like a good one. At the very least, I expect life and work never gets dull, and may even be an adventure. I guess if you decide to take her approach , a line from one of her movies probably sums it up best:

“Fasten your seatbelts. It’s going to be a bumpy night.”

The Gift

May 28, 2008

“Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.”

Anaïs Nin